Number one: pain from the past. Ignore it, or deal with your feelings so you can move on? My Someone, we'll call him, has tremendous ignorances from his past which keep him from dealing with any kind of future. He keeps sending me mixed messages, about how I am not the weak one, and "ya never know" about my future... and he wants all my dreams to come true... but we're not dating.
Number two: annoying exes. That is all.
Three: When the games men and women play are kind of fun, so maybe you don't really want this chase to end, if you're honest with yourself. Ignore it? How long do you wait? Continue to date? Sometimes it's like swattin' at a butterfly or a mosquito.
